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The Sims 4Lovestruck expansion pack introduced an attraction system based on physical and personality preferences, also known as turn-ons and turn-offs. Players can now choose their Sims turn-ons and turn-offs, which will influence how attracted they are to the Sims they meet during their day-to-day lives.
This guide will tell players what they need to know about attraction inThe Sims 4so they can master it and take advantage of this feature in their save files.

How Attraction Works in The Sims 4
Players can choose what their Sims are attracted to inThe Sims 4by setting their romantic preferences. If they find a Sim that corresponds to their preferences, they will be more attracted to them.
To set turn-ons and turn-offs inThe Sims 4, gamers have to open the Select Preferences menu (smiley and frowny faces underneath the Aspiration button), and then click the Magnet symbol next to the Likes and Dislikes tab.

Once gamers are in the Turn-Ons and Turns-Offs tab, they can choose up to 50 attraction preferences. On top of this, they can also set their Likes and Dislikes and select up to 50compatibility preferences.
All Turn-On & Turn-Off Options
Players can choose all sorts of turn-ons and turn-offs inThe Sims 4. There are six categories: Way of Life, Characteristics, Romance Styles, Hair Color, Outfit Color, and Fashion. Each category has its own options for gamers to choose from.
How to Learn Other Sims' Turn-Ons & Turn-Offs
Sim can learn other Sim’s preferences through several social interactions. Players can start a conversation with a Sim and ask them directly by selecting one of the"Ask about… Attraction" options in the Relationship social menu. Alternatively, they can do it naturally by getting to know them and engaging in social activities, such as playingWho’s Up Party Games.
How to Check Attraction Levels
Players who would just like to get a straight answer on how other Sims feel about their Sim can ask directly. Alternatively, they can also disclose how their Sim feels towards others. However, this might not always be worth mentioning.
It is only worth disclosing your Sim’s attraction level to another Sim if it’s positive, as this will make them blush. Gamers can check this by checking the other’s Sim’s profile and scrolling down to the Relationship section. Here, they can also check out the other’s Sims attraction level once it’s been revealed as well as compatibility and relationship status.

How to Change Attraction Levels
Sims will have an initial attraction level based on physical aspects, such as the outfit they’re wearing and how they look. However, as they become closer, this can increase and decrease, as they will start to get to know their personality and ways of life.
To increase attraction levels inThe Sims 4, gamers need to first learn the other Sims preferences and then try to match them. This can be done by changing their lifestyle, hairstyle, and clothing. Alternatively, it’s also possible to get a Sim’s attraction level to go down. To do this, fans will have to change the same aspects of their lives but in a way that goes completely against what the other Sim looks for in a partner.

How to Toggle Attraction in The Sims 4
Sims will have an attraction level with anyone they meet; it’s the default setting, but it can be turned off.To prevent Sims from experiencing attraction outside of romantic relationships, players have to select their Sim and then click the “Disable Attraction” option. This way, the Sim will only feel attracted (or unattracted) to their partners.

